Tuesday, December 1, 2009

NBA basketball game in Charlotte, North Carolina December 1, 2009

Charlotte Bobcats guard Raymond Felton (2nd R) works to shoot around Boston Celtics center Kendrick Perkins (3rd R) during their NBA basketball game in Charlotte, North Carolina December 1, 2009.




Charlotte Bobcats forward Gerald Wallace (top) falls to the ground after shooting against Boston Celtics forward Kevin Garnett (2nd L) and center Kendrick Perkins (2nd R) during their NBA basketball game in Charlotte, North Carolina December 1, 2009.




Boston Celtics center Kendrick Perkins (C) shoots the ball against Charlotte Bobcats forward Boris Diaw of France (32), center Tyson Chandler (6) and forward Stephen Jackson (1) during an NBA basketball game in Charlotte, North Carolina December 1, 2009.

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Privacy Is a Perk in Tiger Woods' Exclusive Florida Enclave

By Barbara Liston
Tiger Woods and his wife, Elin, watching Game 4 of the NBA basketball finals in Orlando, Fla., on June 11, 2009

The celebrities and the superrich who live in Isleworth, including Tiger Woods, would like to project a common touch. Every Halloween, residents of the gated golf community near Orlando, Fla., decorate their golf carts and drive trick-or-treaters door-to-door. They share lunches and dinners at the country club, play pickup basketball games and hold community events. "It's pretty normal," says Ravé Mehta, CEO of a software-development firm who lives just outside Isleworth's vine-covered walls but has many friends inside.

Normal is a relative term. Houses inside Isleworth's 600 acres (243 hectares), 45 miles (72 km) southwest of Orlando, Fla., cost between $2 million and $8 million. Aside from Woods, perhaps the wealthiest and most famous golfer in history, homeowners have included sports legends like NBA superstar Shaquille O'Neill, movie stars like Wesley Snipes and tycoons like Planet Hollywood creator Robert Earl. The development is ranked the world's No. 1 luxury golf community, and the Mediterranean-style country club is a massive 89,000 square feet (8,268 sq m). Isleworth has its own private security force with marked patrol cars and fully staffed guard houses that carefully screen any visitors. Even police officers from the nearest incorporated town, Windermere, must ask permission to enter.

When you live inside that kind of cocoon of wealth and exclusivity, it's easy to believe that your privacy trumps everyone else's. And whether he means to or not, Woods is projecting that decidedly exclusive mind-set as he insists on stonewalling Florida law-enforcement investigators looking into the circumstances of his bizarre, 2:30 a.m. car crash last Friday morning, when his Cadillac SUV struck a fire hydrant in front of his $2.4 million Isleworth mansion and then plowed into a neighbor's tree. The crash left Woods temporarily unconscious — and seems to have rendered his p.r. apparatus addled as well. His less-than-forthcoming statements to both police and the public have only stoked rumors about his domestic life that were flooding the gossip blogosphere even before the incident.

Technically, Woods isn't legally obligated to say anything more to the cops, who said over the weekend that alcohol was not involved in the accident. Unless law enforcement — in this case the Florida Highway Patrol (FHP), which has jurisdiction in traffic-accident investigations — finds some evidence that suggests Woods' crash was more than just a driving mishap, it can't compel him to grant a police interview. "If not, he's only obligated to pay a traffic fine and the cost of the hydrant he knocked over," says an official in Orange County (which includes Orlando and Isleworth) who is familiar with the case and spoke on condition of anonymity since the county is not involved in the probe.

Since Friday, Woods has issued a statement accepting blame for the accident while at the same time slamming the "malicious rumors" published recently in the National Enquirer and on numerous gossip websites alleging an affair with a New York socialite (who herself has since denied the rumors.) But given Woods' mega-fame, and the worshipful esteem in which fans hold him and his impeccable image, silence is rarely if ever a wise option in a media frenzy like the one surrounding his midnight misfortune. He risks looking as if he's hiding something — and, just as bad, he appears to be behaving as if he should be exempt from the kind of police scrutiny most plebeians would expect after trashing public property at 2:30 in the morning. (And if Florida police aren’t careful, they risk looking as if they’re handling a celeb with kid gloves.) Moreover, "we expect greater disclosure from a celebrity like Tiger Woods because he is so familiar to us," says Ida Cook, a sociologist at the University of Central Florida in Orlando. "When we're denied that, it doesn't feel right."

That said, Cook asserts that Woods is being subjected to a public double standard: we expect him to tell us and the police more about his private life than he should have to, "certainly more than Joe Schmo would probably have to offer under similar circumstances." That may be so, but if investigators do eventually find evidence that Woods hasn't been as up-front as he should have been — that he might have been under the influence of painkillers after last year's knee surgery, or that he and his Swedish model wife (who told police she smashed the SUV's rear window with a golf club to help extract her injured husband) were having a domestic argument heated enough to contribute to the accident — Woods' reticence, or lying, will come crashing down on his credibility much harder than it would on Joe Schmo. An FHP spokeswoman on Monday acknowledged, for example, that the agency could still request Woods' medical records from the hospital he was taken to briefly after the accident.

Woods' woes forced him to announce Monday that he was dropping out of his own charity golf tournament, the Chevron World Challenge, which starts Thursday in California.

The Woods incident is the second time in two months that Isleworth's well-heeled serenity has been shaken. In late September, millionaire Florida developer Bob Ward was charged with shooting his wife to death at their $5 million Isleworth home. (He has pleaded not guilty and is facing trial.) It was the first homicide the gated community has experienced since it was started in the 1980s by golf icon Arnold Palmer, who fell in love with the area's rolling landscape and chain of lakes. (He created an 18-hole golf course there that is consistently ranked one of the longest and most difficult in links-crazy Florida.)

Mehta says he almost had his own accident involving Woods recently. While Mehta was driving through the parking lot of a local athletic club, Woods suddenly hopped out between two cars with a duffel bag, forcing Mehta to slam on his brakes to avoid hitting Woods. "He [Woods] stops, looks up at me and grins like, 'Ha, ha, sorry,' " Mehta recalls. Whether or not Woods can eventually laugh off his latest traffic mistake depends on whether Florida investigators decide he really doesn't have anything more to tell them.


source : Time.com

Attending Her Company Party

By Sharalyn Hartwell
Relationship Expert

It’s that time of year again: Time for the company holiday party. It’s bad enough that you have to dress up and schmooze all night at your own party (at least there’s an open bar, that’s some consolation), but now she wants you to attend hers too.

After-hours work functions (especially when it’s not even your work), can be a little daunting to those newly venturing into the corporate realm. And conversely, the nuances of the company holiday party are old-hat to the corporate journeyman. Pretty much all the same rules/tips apply to any corporate function, but this time there’s just a little twist: It’s her company party. That means there’s a little more to it than guys might think.

what you need to know and do
Dress appropriately for the occasion
Be sure to check what the dress code is for her company party. Luckily for work holiday parties, the dress code is typically pretty clear: formal, cocktail, etc. Don’t worry if your wardrobe isn’t too extensive. Deriving different looks from your basic dark suit can easily be done with your tie, cuff links, shirt color, etc. For more style tips, review AM’s Rule Refresher: Dress For the Occasion.

Brush up on her industry
Even though the corporate party is supposed to be fun away from work, there will inevitably be work-related conversations. Piece of cake when it’s your party and your industry. However, this time it’s not. Be prepared to contribute to the conversation by doing a little research on her industry before the evening out.

Go easy on the alcohol
Yes, there is a very good possibility there will be an open bar; however, this is not a green light to demonstrate to everyone just how well you hold your liquor (or don’t). It may be tempting to entertain yourself with drink after drink, but hold strong. Despite the jovial atmosphere, the bigwigs will be watching -- evaluating even -- for inappropriate behavior. Your actions will reflect on your girl so act accordingly. And if she starts to get a little out of control, she’ll thank you later if you help her keep it under wraps.

Participate
A good deterrent for relying on alcoholic entertainment: participate. Make an effort to talk to the people at your table, dance, show your great sense of humor, and so on. Just don’t be that guy -- the boyfriend sitting alone at the table or the one she has to beg to join her on the dance floor. (Again, this is something people watch, particularly her office girlfriends. It will be important to her.)

Be assertive
The most important moment and introduction all evening is when you meet her boss. You have to be assertive. Look him in the eye, smile warmly and firmly shake his hand. Don’t stand back and be aloof in the conversation. Join in (i.e., participate. Ring a bell?) When her boss asks about you and your profession, confidently explain how you spend your time. And if your girl happens to complain a great deal about her boss and his inane ways of running the office, don't let that show in your dealings with him. Just because she opens up to you at home doesn't mean she wants her boss to know the truth.

Be attentive
Most of the suggestions so far have been pretty standard or just a good review, but this will be the baffling one to you. How her office girlfriends rate you will largely determine the success of the party in her eyes. (Yes, it is kind of junior high and ridiculous, but it is the nature of girl world.) She wants to show you off and make all her office girlfriends jealous because she has such a great guy. Just play the part exceedingly well that night (be a gentleman personified by helping with her coat, pulling out her chair, getting her drinks, etc.) and dial it up a notch by making an effort to remember the names of her coworkers (basically, be your charming self). All of this equates to a big gushy session over coffee on Monday morning in which you will star as the main topic of conversation. This is, of course, her goal (again, it may be dumb, but this is just how it works).

Know when to leave
This one is simple. Don’t be the last one to leave the party. You’ll be able to sense the appropriate time. Usually a little while after dinner (after getting a little dancing in), the crowd will start to thin. Follow suit. However, when you leave, be sure to give the appropriate thank-yous and goodbyes to her boss and coworkers.

her company customs
Though the company party (hers or yours) will inevitably have its less-than-exciting moments, it is an important part of the corporate schmoozing game. It provides a chance to make an impression outside of the office. Keeping these things in mind will ensure you’re the hit of her company party.


source: askmen.com

Santa Claus Christmas tree decorations

SEIFFEN, GERMANY - NOVEMBER 30: The wooden, painted parts of Santa Claus Christmas tree decorations lie on an artsian's worktable at the Richard Glaesser GmbH wooden toy manufactory on November 30, 2009 in Seiffen, Germany. Seiffen, located in eastern Germany close to the Czech border in the Ore Mountains (Erzgebirge), has an artisinal wooden toy manufacturing tradition dating back to the 18th century. Today local toy producers, many of them family-run, export their hand-made ornaments, nutcrackers, Christmas pyramids, figurines and other toys worldwide.











SEIFFEN, GERMANY - NOVEMBER 30: The hands of artisan Isabel Goehler glue together the wooden parts of Santa Claus Christmas tree decorations at the Richard Glaesser GmbH wooden toy manufactory on November 30, 2009 in Seiffen, Germany. Seiffen, located in eastern Germany close to the Czech border in the Ore Mountains (Erzgebirge), has an artisinal wooden toy manufacturing tradition dating back to the 18th century. Today local toy producers, many of them family-run, export their hand-made ornaments, nutcrackers, Christmas pyramids, figurines and other toys worldwide.



SEIFFEN, GERMANY - NOVEMBER 30: Artisan Isabel Goehler glues together the wooden parts of Santa Claus Christmas tree decorations at the Richard Glaesser GmbH wooden toy manufactory on November 30, 2009 in Seiffen, Germany. Seiffen, located in eastern Germany close to the Czech border in the Ore Mountains (Erzgebirge), has an artisinal wooden toy manufacturing tradition dating back to the 18th century. Today local toy producers, many of them family-run, export their hand-made ornaments, nutcrackers, Christmas pyramids, figurines and other toys worldwide.



SEIFFEN, GERMANY - NOVEMBER 30: Paint brushes, glue and paint jars stand next to painted, wooden Christmas tree decorations drying at the worktable of an artisan at the Richard Glaesser GmbH wooden toy manufactory on November 30, 2009 in Seiffen, Germany. Seiffen, located in eastern Germany close to the Czech border in the Ore Mountains (Erzgebirge), has an artisinal wooden toy manufacturing tradition dating back to the 18th century. Today local toy producers, many of them family-run, export their hand-made ornaments, nutcrackers, Christmas pyramids, figurines and other toys worldwide.



SEIFFEN, GERMANY - NOVEMBER 30: The hands of an artisan carve a wooden dowl into a decorative tree at the Richard Glaesser GmbH wooden toy manufactory on November 30, 2009 in Seiffen, Germany. Seiffen, located in eastern Germany close to the Czech border in the Ore Mountains (Erzgebirge), has an artisinal wooden toy manufacturing tradition dating back to the 18th century. Today local toy producers, many of them family-run, export their hand-made ornaments, nutcrackers, Christmas pyramids, figurines and other toys worldwide.

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The U.S. Capitol Christmas tree

The U.S. Capitol Christmas tree is planted on the grounds of the U.S. Capitol in Washington November 30, 2009. The 85-foot spruce is from Arizona's Apache Sitgreaves National Forest.










The U.S. Capitol Christmas tree is planted on the grounds of the U.S. Capitol in Washington November 30, 2009. The 85-foot spruce is from Arizona's Apache Sitgreaves National Forest. The Washington Monument is seen in the background.


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The World AIDS day in Thailand

Thai schoolchildren visit a museum exhibiting preserved bodies of AIDS victims at a Buddhist temple Wat Prabat Nampu, in Lopburi, on the World AIDS day December 1, 2009. Thailand has been widely praised for its work in containing the virus. The number of new infections fell from a peak of around 140,000 a year in 1991, to 18,000 in 2005, according to UNAIDS. This remarkable achievement came about mainly because men used condoms more, and also reduced their use of brothels.





A terminally ill young Thai man receives treatment at a hospice for those dying of AIDS, at Wat Prabat Nampu Buddhist temple, in Lopburi, on the World AIDS day December 1, 2009. Thailand has been widely praised for its work in containing the virus. The number of new infections fell from a peak of around 140,000 a year in 1991, to 18,000 in 2005, according to UNAIDS. This remarkable achievement came about mainly because men used condoms more, and also reduced their use of brothels.



A terminally ill man rests, as Thai schoolchildren visit a hospice for those dying of AIDS, at Wat Prabat Nampu Buddhist temple, in Lopburi, on the World AIDS day December 1, 2009. Thailand has been widely praised for its work in containing the virus. The number of new infections fell from a peak of around 140,000 a year in 1991, to 18,000 in 2005, according to UNAIDS. This remarkable achievement came about mainly because men used condoms more, and also reduced their use of brothels.




Mascots in the shape of a heart and a condom are seen at a march during a campaign against HIV to mark World AIDS day in Bangkok December 1, 2009.

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Santa Claus, campaign to raise money for a charity donation in Seoul

1,004 South Korean volunteers wearing Santa Claus costumes pose in a campaign to raise money for a charity donation in Seoul, South Korea, Tuesday, Dec. 1, 2009. Christmas is one of the biggest holidays in South Korea where over half of the population of 48 million are Christians.







Piggy banks are piled up as volunteers wearing Santa Claus costumes perform in a campaign to raise money for a charity donation in Seoul, South Korea, Tuesday, Dec. 1, 2009. Christmas is one of the biggest holidays in South Korea where over half of the population of 48 million are Christians


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